A couple without children who go on holidays twelve times each year and enjoy lie-ins on weekends said that they don’t want to be miserable by having kids.
27-year-old Taylor and 28-year-old Justin Vasu are DINKS, a carefree couple with no kids, and double income, who are living their best lives full of joy in California.
The couple has been staying with each other for almost six years, they love to travel, go on spontaneous lunch dates, work out together, and enjoy peaceful sleeping in every weekend.
The duo shared that they mostly take off time from their work at a week’s notice to have wild sex which they have at least four times per week.
“Most people say when you have kids – your life will be over. It makes us not want to have any. People sometimes guilt trip me by saying my maternal clock is ticking,”
“I tell them – ‘You’re just mad at the consequences of your own actions, I don’t want to be miserable like you.’”
In the year 2017, Taylor and Justin met for the first time and then they dated each other for over five years.
The previous year, the couple got married in June in Hawaii.
According to Taylor, it’s not a great idea to have children so early in life as she and her husband both are an IT sales executive, who love to live a stress free life and spends a lot on their luxuries.
This is the reason, they don’t want to start their family and right now the pair are saving money because they wanted to buy a new home, not kids.
Taylor who is an interior designer revealed, “We can do whatever we want, whenever we want, and I don’t want to give that up,”
“We lost two years of our lives to Covid. We both love to travel – it’s always been the foundation of our relationship. Now the world is functioning again, we want to visit all the places we missed out on.”
She also added that, in this year, they wants to visit Morocco, Italy, Utah, Texas, and New York and becoming parents will not allow them to travel this much and to live the happy carefree life they want.
“We have friends with young children, and we see how much it halts their lives. You rarely see a couple with a newborn traveling to Tahiti. Children are so reliant on you.”
“Our schedule is really ours to make. We love a spontaneous plan, and when you have kids, that’s not possible.”
She also told that as they don’t have kids, they get more chances to spend quality time together with each other without any disturbance, which keeps their relationship and love life more interesting and alive.
“You’re not as tired, so you can have wild sex nights during the week if you want. You work out together in the morning, so the foreplay starts as soon as you wake up. By the end of the night, you want to jump your partner’s bones. When you have children, you have no time for that,” the 27-year-old Taylor said.
Justin said that after having kids the couple becomes so stressed as they increase the level of responsibility, and he and his wife both are not ready to live that kind of miserable life.
“I’m very much on the same page. I do want kids eventually, but right now, I just want to enjoy my time with Taylor and enjoy our relationship,” he told.
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