The idea of sharing your life with someone and starting a relationship should be comforting for your soul because only then you can find true happiness together. Leaving your own life and beginning a new chapter with someone else can shake you to your core but when you have a great chemistry with your partner and you feel compatible with them then you are no longer scared.
But how would you ensure that you would have a chemistry and compatibility with this person in your life. Most likely, partners who are meant to be together find out time for each other to do these 8 things:
1. They create an environment to make each other feel safe and secure in a relationship.
Your partner is your protector from all the potential harm that could come your way. If your partner cannot give you security and they are the one feeding into your fears and insecurities then you will never see your relationship a safe haven for you.
2. They find ways to have fun together as a couple.
As a couple, to have fun you two should be enough for each other to spend light moments together. A relationship doesn’t always have to focus on serious things only but it can be sustained for the long-term when you both know how to have fun together.
3. There should be no problem for either of you to go shopping for one another.
Shopping should not be an issue for both of you. You should enjoy going out for shopping for each other or with each other. Your partner should not need to make excuses to go on shopping with you because you are the only person important in their life and they should enjoy this time together.
4. There must be complete honesty between partners.
Living a life while keeping secrets from your partner will give you remorse and resentment at the end. It’s better to stay honest and transparent in your actions for you to have an ideal relationship. If you feel that your partner would conceal their life details from you and doesn’t feel comfortable sharing with you then you two are not meant to be in this relationship.
5. There should be no awkwardness between you as a couple if you sit in perfect silence.
For two people to know that everything is alright, it doesn’t mean that they should be talking at all times. Sometimes, things are better felt in silence than in words. It is a matter of enjoying each other’s company only. You two should have such comfort level with each other that even if you are sitting in silence but still it doesn’t feel awkward at all.
6. Your partner has no issue in giving you space and privacy.
You two are meant to be together when your partner doesn’t demand from you to leave your individual life and live on their terms. It’s mature of you to understand that it will benefit both of you to set boundaries in a relationship and there should also be space and privacy in it to breathe freely.
7. Partners should not force each other to leave personal goals and dreams for the sake of relationship.
You partner will understand your ambition to fulfill your goals and dreams in life if you are meant to be together. You will not feel like your relationship is forcing you to give up everything that you want for yourself if you share a good chemistry with your partner.
8. There should be open lines of communication between partners.
A strong communication game ensures that your relationship is going to last. Lest, you are unable to talk to each other freely you will never have a compatible relationship.
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