A leading divorce lawyer named Dennis R Vetrano, Jr from the US recently revealed the major theme that why most marriage and relationship doesn’t work nowadays and a lot of couples have been getting fail to save their relationships after becoming working parents.
Dennis who is a New York-based family lawyer currently specializing in divorce cases, posts several types of divorce trends on his TikTok account, where he has almost 390K followers.
Recently, he shared a video, where he spoke about a major theme due to most of the relationships of the couples failing and becoming the reason for their divorce.
In his viral video clip, he described the women who are ‘doing it all’ in relationships where men and women both work equally under the pressure of looking after their children and doing all the home chores and life activities.
“Do you want to know the major theme that I’m seeing in the divorce industry, as a divorce lawyer, as I do consults these days?” he told in the video.“I am seeing working mums doing it all, and I am seeing the husbands step back and say, ‘Huh, I don’t gotta do a thing!” he further added.
“She’s got the kids, she’s got the groceries, she’s got the laundry, she’s got the meals, she’s got the work, and by the way, she’s making all the money and she’s paying for the house and doing everything else. I’m going to go to the firehouse, I’m going to go play this, I’m going to go hang out with my friends.’”
Vetrano Jr said that most women want to get rid of their relationships because their partner always expects them to manage all the house chores along with their long hours of work.
“That’s the theme. And women are tired.”
The lawyer’s video received almost 5 million views on TikTok, and many people shared it on other social media apps too. After watching his video, many divorced women agree with him and also explained their reasons for ending their relationships.
“WAY less stressed since divorce. And I get nights to myself!!!” one woman commented.
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“This is why I’m having a hard time figuring out why modern day marriage is worth my time,” a second one added.
“We get sick of the mental load. Having to give instructions on evetything. It’s exhausting,” another one wrote.
“My ex had the shock of his life after separation. He actually told me he underestimated how hard house work and child rearing is,” a fourth comment read.
“Asked my husband to remake the bed when he gets up he came down to ask where the bedding was kept, same place its been for 4 years,” an annoyed wife said.
“men making us single working moms during the marriage, night as well be legally single, been doing by ourselves…single!” someone wrote.
“Genuinely knew that divorce was imminent when my ex cleaned the kitchen by himself without me begging him to. It was the first time in five years,” another divorced woman dropped her story in the comment section.
“the theme is that he shows her that she doesn’t need him because he adds no value,” another social media user wrote.
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